EL & Love and intimacy

EL & intimacy

I his book steiner said:
Most of us sense that there should be more to life. We hunger for the intimacy of deep feeling. We hunger for a connection to others, to understand someone and be understood by him or her. In short, we long to love and be loved.

The undeniable evidence is that love and intimacy affect health and recovery from illness.
“love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well… I am not aware of any factor in medicine — not diet, not smoking, not stress, not genetics, not drugs, not surgery—that has greater impact on our quality of life, incidence of illness and premature death from all causes.”
Dean Ornish, MD in Love and Survival: The Scientific Basis for the Healing Power of Intimacy.

few links in connection with this
http://www.intimacyretreats.com/writings.htm

People seek love; love is exchanged transactionally, through strokes. Strokes can be physical or verbal. Physical strokes are any form of touch: hugs, kisses, caresses, backrubs, holding hands, or being held.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/exercise_sensate.shtml

v-Stroke

v-Stroke

Starting with the idea from What's the bleep do we know we can create and use emoticons to transmit strokes. This is what we called ELticons they are especialy for chat, messanger, mail si SMS.

We will post a selction of Elticons and elbreviations in order to be a tool for emotional warriors.

tThis signs will be transformed in live amotions, will activate limbic system and human need to give and receive afection.

Emoticon who transmit real emotions, strokes willl be named ELticoni, and abreviations ELbreviations. They are a kind of love vectors.

Pentru dialog ar putea fi folosit un dictionar de abrevieri
http://www.net-comber.com/acronyms.html
http://www.netlingo.com/emailsh.cfm



ELbrevieri
GMeSumLuvin - Give Me Some Lovin’ (ask 4 strokes)
GORJUS - Gorgeous
GTSY - Glad To See You
H&K - Hug(s) & Kiss(es)
HAND - Have A Nice Day
HTY - Hugs To You
I LUV U 2 - I Love You Too
IAY - I Adore You
IAYT - I Adore You Too
IC**WENUXME - I See Stars When You Kiss Me
ICL - In Christian Love
IHTFP - I Have Truly Found Paradise
IITYWIMWYKM - If I Tell You What It Means, Will You Kiss Me
IJC2SAILUVU I - Just Called To Say I Love You
ILUA I - Love You Alot
ILUVUMED - I Love You More Each Day
IWMU - I Will Miss You
KFY - Kiss For You

ELticons
: * kisses
:-X a big wet kiss!
:-x kiss kiss
:-{} blowing a kiss
[] hugs
(( )):** hugs and kisses
((((name)))) hug
][ feeling separate
] [ separating
) ( really separating
{ } face-to-face
[ ] wanting to hug
}xx kisses
() feeling in harmony; connecting
] ? moving away and wondering about you?
[ ? moving toward you and wondering about you?


A study show that "IM promotes rather than hinders intimacy" "Through these emoticons, some limitations of CMC" (computer mediated comunications) may be overcome. arata studiul.

Example of abreviations to be created:
IHYH - I want to hold your hand
WWHIH - we'v walk hand in hand

resurse - sanatate, soul mate, evolutie

Resources
http://www.healpastlives.com/future/exercise/indxhsex.htm http://www.healpastlives.com/future/exercise/ex33list.htm
soul mate article
http://www.healpastlives.com/future/rule/rusoulmt.htm